Posted by antigua3 on December 7, 2007, at 8:34:59
In reply to Re: A book that has helped me understand my pdoc, posted by DAisym on December 6, 2007, at 15:05:12
I know I really got to him because he retaliated by criticizing my writing--he thought something I'd sent him was bulls**t. He actually said that!
Years ago, that would have sent me into a tailspin, but if there is one thing I'm secure about now is my writing. If he did not understand what I was trying to communicate, that's at least half his problem and i'm not going to take all the responsibility for it. (I thought I was pretty clear BTW). But so he hit back with something he knew would hurt, but I didn't let it get to me. Now that's progress. But I do understand where he was coming from, but he shouldn't do that, I know that for sure.
Thanks for your reply. You're right, it's good to get the feelings out, even though I know they are only partly about him.
antigua
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