Posted by star008 on December 3, 2007, at 15:04:16
In reply to Re: Can't wait..., posted by rskontos on December 3, 2007, at 13:38:32
I am sorry that it happened that way for you with the workshop. did u feel like an outsider because it was just strange or ws it because of the group of people??did they all know each other making you feel like an outsider or do you have trouble with groups of strangers?
I wouldn't bring up the subject of the crush either.. Ihad one for a long time now it seems like he is more "parental" or something and the thought is long gone..lol.. I have thought about how I used to feel andnow it is kind of "yuck".. Not that I don't love him dearly but it is not an attraction thing anymore. that part of therapy s..cks.. Happens to all of us I think and the T's have to be aware of how common it is whether we say anything or not. After being on babble I have seen that it isn't just me by a long shot.
The jealousy thing is just a part of you that wants the attention and doen't want to have to share.. LIke an inner kid that is mad when someone else gets attention.. Even a crush won't make you jealous just when someone focusses on someone else.. I think it is probably the needy child part of you that was jealous. You could explain your jealously to him in that way if it fits for you.. Then you don't have to say anything about a crush and can still get your message across.. I could be way off here but that is kind of how it feels to me.. try not to stress so much. I understand you are upset but really if you look at it, you went to a workshop that you hated and felt left out of and part of you was jealous.. It makes sense and is nothing to be embarrassed about. take care
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