Posted by rskontos on October 29, 2007, at 12:27:24
In reply to Re: hurting., posted by B2chica on October 29, 2007, at 12:18:42
You are!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)
Here is a hug ((((((((((((B2Chica)))))))))))))))))
Here is some strength (((((((((((Strength)))))))))))))I know you can do this sweetie. You are strong. Look at how you have survived this far. You have been through alot and you have made it this far. My T says those of us that split and have these identities are very smart it takes a very intelligent brain to do this. It is a gift. So use your gift and survive longer. It might not feel that way I know I don't always feel like it is but survival is important. I don't want the abuser to win over you. It is important for you to win over them. I know there are many others that see what I see. Your baby, your H, your T, and all the other Babblers!!!! We all aren't wrong. Why do you think you are so bad. What exactly have you done right? Did you ask for the abuse. Heck no! You didn't create any of this pain. You are being the one that has to deal with it but you didn't create it. Someone else is responsible for that. It sucks but that is that. You can lick it . I know you can. You have many other times. Go with it but don't let it suck the life out of you. Feel bad for a while but take small baby steps to do something to get out of the despair zone. OK. Take irl little one for a walk and show her a pretty sky or a little bit of nature. Give what you were never given. A nice natural childhood. You can do it for her!!!
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