Posted by antigua3 on October 26, 2007, at 12:00:38
In reply to Re: Pdoc/Real Me asked why I wouldn't shake hands » arora, posted by RealMe on October 25, 2007, at 22:02:03
The jerks are so much challenging, and I need to be challenged. If I decide to give up with him, it will be a decision of my own power and I can't explain why that's important, but it is. I am the one who has to decide on the level of acceptance. I've discussed this with him, as in is this actually more abuse? There is a difference in that I am in charge, and I promise, my T will tell me when I'm not. We monitor this very carefully.
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