Posted by arora on October 24, 2007, at 6:08:38
In reply to Re: Pdoc/Real Me asked why I wouldn't shake hands abov » antigua3, posted by RealMe on October 23, 2007, at 22:22:45
He sounds a bit Victorian, if you ask me! How can you build a relationship that requires trust with someone so stuffy?!
I disagree with all this 'the past is past' stuff, too... imagine if someone had an old leg injury that had never healed properly- would they be told "it's only a wound from the past; now just focus on that marathon!"
Of course not- it would be tended and seen to be mended, (and crutches used!) before they were expected to run.You might as well expect to tell a tree to just forget its roots.
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