Posted by Phillipa on October 17, 2007, at 21:37:22
In reply to Feeling kinda shaky, posted by happyflower on October 17, 2007, at 11:47:54
Happyflower these are only my thoughts. I believe your therapist was trying to help you accept and deal with the little baby's death and if not resolved yet your Mother's too. I feel as hard as it is that you should be with your Daughter. Comfort for you both. And that quilt have you or your Daughter thought of wrapping the new baby in it for burial if that's what you're doing so she will know how much your Daughter loved and wanted her. I think it might help with closure. I also think you should see the baby for the same reason as I didn't see my deceased relatives and without seeing them your mind really doesn't know they are gone in my case anyway. I hope I haven't said the wrong things. Love Phillipa
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