Posted by RealMe on October 10, 2007, at 23:19:33
In reply to h won't go see t., posted by llurpsienoodle on October 10, 2007, at 22:28:38
Sounds like your husband could not sleep because he was upset by his own behavior, and now he is too embarrassed for a T to hear about it all, especially if he has never acted like this before. I would say cut him some slack, but I would also have to say I am the last person in the world who would really feel okay about saying that. Too much anger flies around this house sometimes. Anyway what I first said is likely true as why else would he be unabel to sleep. He must be feeling really sh*tty about his behavior. Will he apologize? Maybe not; men seem to often have their own way of apologizing like not being able to sleep all night!!!
One time my husband and I had a big fight, and he said he was leaving, and I said okay, go! So he left in one of the cars, and I later found out he went down to the train station for our town and read and tried to sleep, but the coyotes were howling like crazy. Then a city police officer came by to see is he was okay. I just laugh when I think about it; serves him right.
And, lastly--do you really want to be alone? I seem to remember that bothered you a lot. I am not saying to go off for a night if that would help, but I can feel your anger right throuh my computer.
RealMe
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