Posted by RealMe on September 28, 2007, at 21:36:56
In reply to Re: Why am I afraid of rejection by a troll? » Racer, posted by Dory on September 28, 2007, at 15:28:25
Dory wrote**She is the daughter of a friend who died... you might not actually *be* responsible for her in any way, but your bond with your friend probably keeps you feeling that way... it becomes more about your friend than about her daughter. Guilt is a wonderous thing.. guilt helped keep you listening to this woman i would imagine.**
This from Dory relates to my thoughts too, Racer. She is the daughter of a friend, and not just a friend; a friend who died. Perhaps you feel a sense of betrayal to your friend by telling her daughter to basically get a life and stop being such a complainer. It sounds like she knows how to complain but never takes anyone's advice and doesn't really do anything to help herself; just complains. Nothing works and no one can really help. She sounds like one angry young lady.
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