Posted by LittleGirlLost on September 25, 2007, at 12:59:55
In reply to Re: Babble interfere with therapy? » LittleGirlLost, posted by muffled on September 24, 2007, at 22:06:56
> I think its GOOD to see how other T's work. Cuz then we can always suggest such stuff to our T's. Not to say they'll go for it, but it can be a topic that will bring up other stuff.
> I think my T does stuff thats great and wouldn't trade her for nothing, yet i KNOW she has her shortcommings. But I think ALL T's WILL have shortcommings cuz they HUMAN!
> So to me, it goes back to 'fit'. What fits for the client. My T fits cuz she is calm, laughs, very patient, pretty open, strong, no scared of me, don't give up on me etc. I wish she knew more bout dissociation :-(, but right now, I need steadfastness, and she is that.**I agree with you Muffled. All T's will have shortcomings, because they are human; she's so much as told me that. She's not perfect, I know; nor does she want to be. She always said that she would never hurt me intentionally, and I believe that, but I just wish this never would have happened because now I don't know how to deal with it. We fit, I know we do; but right now it feels like we don't. Does that mean we no longer do? I don't know.
I'm glad your T fits for you. :)
> Well IMHO I find babble ADDS to my T. In a GOOD way. Sometimes its hard to be here. Sometimes its triggering. But on the whole it is helpful for me, and very informative.**I agree that it's helpful. I'm thinking I shouldn't have used the word "interfere" as that seems to have a negative connotation. Even though I no longer post as much and have become more of a wallflower (boardflower? lol), just reading here encourages me to stretch beyond my comfort zone (albeit a very slow process for me!).
> This needs to be dealt with all right.
**I know it does. I just feel so removed from it. I need to talk about it and I don't even want to, but is that the stubborn part of me? But I'm embarrassed to talk about it! I tried once, and look what happened. I'm hurt and I'm angry, and i'm not supposed to get angry. :(
Thank you for your thoughts, Muffled.
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