Posted by Dory on September 19, 2007, at 6:11:06
In reply to Re: fitting in » Dory, posted by LlurpsieNoodle on September 18, 2007, at 19:25:51
Llurpsie, you are correct. i also know i apologized to at least one person i hurt. My wording perhaps was poorly chosen. i see forgiveness occasionally, but just occasionally. And i should not have said that i haven't seen *anyone* apologize... but i will say that the number of times i get hurt, and i'm not even talking about the whoops-i-said-something-and-hurt-you-but-didn't-mean-to ones... i really meant the times that it might have been accidental but was glaringly bad, or more the point, the times when it was intentional... especially the ones that are wrapped up in such a way that they can sneak through the civility rules. Some people are skilled i guess.
i'm not trying to complain here guys. Yeah, i see the rolling eyes. i am just willing to stand up for those of us who don't feel the same way as Muffled does. (and muffy, you know that i am just presenting the other side and not putting down what you are saying).
trust me, i am not sending bmail to myself about being hurt.
i think that is it. people avoid some posters for the sake of peace, or keep interaction to a minimum. people avoid confrontation.
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