Re: Please be civil » Deputy Racer

Posted by girlnterrupted78 on September 19, 2007, at 1:31:42

In reply to Please be civil » Girlnterrupted78, posted by Deputy Racer on September 18, 2007, at 12:52:51

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> > Hmmm.. I felt annoyed because you sounded hostile and accusatory.
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> > Then you started lecturing on how nobody can answer my questions, and that I should address those questions to my T..
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> Please don't post anything which could lead others to feel accused or put down. Using "I Statements" to express our reactions is OK, but including characterizations of others as "hostile" or "accusatory" is not.
Sorry Racer. I actually said he "sounded" hostile and accusatory, not that he "was" hostile and accusatory. I'm not sure how else I could have worded that, but I just tried to be honest about my response, since that's how the poster in question came across to me, and the poster made a comment about it.
> If you have a problem with something posted on the board, please use the "Notify Administrators" button located at the bottom of each page.
I know that in extreme situations it's better to contact the administrators, but I didn't feel it was extreme, and if the poster in question notes that he senses you to be annoyed, I figured it wasn't necessary to go to administrators for something like this and maybe it was better to be honest? Sorry, I'm now confused about the whole procedure.
Oh well, I'm sorry if it wasn't civil. It wasn't intended that way, but it was intended to be honest and I made sure to use "I" statements, along with saying the person "sounded" as opposed to the person "is" to ensure I wasn't calling the person any negative adjectives.
GI78
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> If you have any questions regarding policies at this site, please check the FAQ, located at http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil Follow ups to this action should be directed to the Administration board, and should themselves be civil.
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> Deputy Racer

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Re: Please be civil » Deputy Racer girlnterrupted78 9/19/07
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