Posted by RealMe on September 16, 2007, at 18:34:47
In reply to sigh...*sex trigger* again..., posted by muffled on September 16, 2007, at 15:46:38
It is hard for me to say because sorry to say, but it was always easy for me to have sex with guys I did not know well and did not love. As soon as I felt love and intimacy was entering the picture, then sex became unpleasant. The consequence of lots of abuse. So, when my T said we would become very intimate, that bothered me. Why? I am not sure. I don't feel that I have been able to feel love or intimacy for a long time, not even with my husband. Sex with him became very unpleasant after a time and then seemed like some act to just go through. I really don't want to say more, but I know this is going to be a topic for therapy. How is it possible to have such enjoyable sex with someone I don't care about and not with someone I do care about. UGGGGH.
RealMe
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