Posted by Dory on September 16, 2007, at 18:21:21
In reply to sigh...*sex trigger* again..., posted by muffled on September 16, 2007, at 15:46:38
i don't know muffled.. it sounds very painful emotionally for her. It is so sad that basic human needs for closeness, both physical and emotional, seem to be the most quickly lost... both the ability to give and receive.
i am guessing there must have been some sort of sexual trauma in her life? It must be so hard to put those pieces back together... to reconcile both the adult and child needs of touch and closeness... with their differences.
the husband must be a very loving person.. this would be a hard situation for a partner (male or female). i don't want to say i feel "bad" for her... that isn't quite right. i feel sad that something has been lost in her life. i don't think sex is some ultimate thing, but it would seem she is not "free" to choose, she is denied regardless.
i would recommend a sex therapist for sure... they deal with this, they know and understand.
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