Posted by slugdoo on August 13, 2007, at 2:58:34
In reply to ***** Long, tedious and triggery *****, posted by Tamar on August 12, 2007, at 21:52:23
Hi Tamar,
It sounds like he needs some stiffer boundries for himself. He is messing up and when T's do that, it caused us to suffer. But I know you know that. He does sound very distracted, so it must be something, but that something shouldn't interfer with his job, at least not this many times.
One thing my old T was good at , he NEVER called to cancel with me in 2 1/2 years, and he is never more than 5 mins late either. It did give me a sense I could count on him. That is so important I believe. I would feel like you if this happened to me with my T. I don't think it is your fault for wanting more, you DESERVE more. Have you ever brought this issue up?It sounds like you have some big issues you are working on and you deserve better treatment, you need to be able to rely on him or the trust will just not be there. (((((Tamar))))))) I am so sorry things are going tough for you.
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