Posted by Daisym on April 19, 2007, at 0:15:11
In reply to Re: Straggler thought » Daisym, posted by antigua on April 18, 2007, at 18:39:40
I'm so sorry. I bet that was very painful. Were you going back into an abusive situation or was this the beginning of it?
My parents split for a year or so and then she went back to him. I was so conflicted - I missed him and I feared him. It was awful for me, trying to be perfect so he wouldn't leave again and bad enough so he wouldn't touch me either. We've been working on this hot spot a little, the time before they were back together. It is hard to tell these stories and hard for my therapist to hear them. He gets upset and angry for me. Once he lost himself to the anger and it scared me. But there is a deep need to get this out and deal with it.
Summer with a college age kid is interesting - your rules or their rules? Together we had to make new rules, but it worked.
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