Posted by gazo on March 29, 2007, at 22:02:15
In reply to Re: schema therapy, posted by Scentedgarden on March 29, 2007, at 19:08:24
did i miss you in chat already? i just now got back to my computer, i had a bunch of work to get done. i'm still around for the next while so i will check in chat for you off and on.
i understand sweetie.. it's not exactly the same scenario i know. But i did feel a little manipulated too. he knew for a long time that i was really really attached (i had/have the same feelings that you did)... and he did nothing, he said nothing. i didn't $h1t from shinola about transference.. so i was too mortified to say anything. If he had just said ANYTHING.. it could have done so much.
i am grieving losing him, i am in pain, i miss him, i want him, i am angry at him and i hate myself for it all.
i know he won't miss me. i know he is so busy he won't even think about me. how much of my anger is me? how much of it is legitimately his fault?
i don't know what to say to ease the pain for either one of use, but i do hear your pain. i really do.
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