Posted by Happyflower on March 27, 2007, at 9:31:37
In reply to Re: What propelled me to the end of therapy, posted by scentedgarden on March 27, 2007, at 8:54:33
Hey Babe! LOL
Well your T needs a swift kick in the bootie! That was a cruel thing for anyone to say, but for a T, that is just uncalled for. I know you love your T, but you deserve much better for yourself. I hope you don't mind me being blunt in saying so.
I think it is fine that you bought all of those books as long as you are also working too. I did it too, almost a year, and it seemes like I was not focused on me, so it slowed me down.I guess part of the reason I am posting this is that I think it is important to hear stories of how someone overcame their past, and are doing well. We need first of all inspiration, and 2nd, I think it can be valuble on knowing how they got there. Not everyone is the same of course, but I feel a lot can be learned from those who made it. I am not there yet, but I feel I am close.
In fact I feel like ending therapy at the end of the summer instead of at the end of the year. I feel I am doing okay, and I will survive without my T . I love him, but I have to let go so I can live, and offer that love to someone who can return it back to me. :-)
Now in your case, you are being forces to let go, and that truely sucks, my heart goes out to you. I would be devestated if that happened to me. Gazo is going through an experience simulair to you right now. I hope you can find a new T, one that really wants to work with you, who can give you exceptance unconditionally. It breaks my heart to see what you are going through. But you can do better, I know you can.
Well this post is turning into a book, so I better stop for now. You are a gem, babe!
Hugs,
Happyflower
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