Posted by bailey777 on March 2, 2007, at 17:18:15
I know this topic has been covered a million times, but I need to ask this question to the babblers out there (I’ve been just a lurker for the most part).
How does transference help you?
I just don’t get it.
For example, I’ve had transference for a long time now, and I’m wondering IF you address this issue with your therapist – HOW does it help or heal you?
This is the scenario that I think of if I address transference w/therapist. (Mine seems to be love/more on the erotic side – I guess, who knows at this point):
Me: I have feelings for you and they seems to be love/sexual
T: That’s called transference perfectly normal
awkward silence
Me: Ok, next topic…How does it make me “stop” having these feelings if I address AND how does it help me?
Any light shed on this topic would be appreciated, thanks
poster:bailey777
thread:737762
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