Posted by littleone on February 21, 2007, at 23:12:10
In reply to My Pathology At Work, posted by mair on February 20, 2007, at 22:23:07
Hi Mair,
I just wanted to say that I’m real glad you were so brave and posted what you did rather than just stay away from babble for “a long time”. I can hear how badly you feel about what happened, but I just wanted to let you know that you definitely aren’t alone there. I do this all the time – draft something then don’t send it, or delay replying then get caught up in the “too late” mentality.
I don’t think anyone would consider you rude or offending. I think most/all of us understand that each poster has their limits on how involved they can be here at any given moment and that isn’t a reflection on how good or bad a person is. It’s simply reflective of their current level of internal resources.
I think you were very brave to be so open and explain that to us. I really respect that.
I’m sorry I haven’t had any words for you re your T (and your sister). Even now I find I come to a complete stop when I try to think of what to say. I think the best I can give you (and your T and sister) are some warm, healing vibes – here they are: ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
I am really glad you’ve been able to talk this over with your T and made some significant insights around the similarities between this situation and your ex-T. It sounds like you’ve done some really good work and moved towards fixing the problems you’re having with your current T.
I bet that must bring some relief for you, although it’s probably very disappointing that you’re about to have a 3 week break. I too hope you can hold on to your connection for as long as possible.
Take care of yourself.
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