Posted by Pippa on February 3, 2007, at 3:49:03
In reply to Re: Love with therapist, posted by bird in the sky on February 2, 2007, at 22:45:21
Bird in the Sky
Yes is often masturbate before I have a session with my T, but there again I masturbate two or three times a day most days.
I find that the release of tension and the relaxing effect means that I can concentrate on the session and get the most benefit from our time together.
I think i also do it so that I know I am not totally reliant on him for my orgasms and sexual release.I want to know that our relationship is not just on a sexual level ... Masturbation allows me to do that.
Masturbation after a session, when we have not had sex, produces some of my most intense orgasms. Often I have to stop the car on the way home to bring myself off and to release the sexual tension that has built up during a session. Especially when we have talked about my libido and my past.
In the UK people still do not talk openly about "self-gratification" or "masturbation" or even sexual relations. I find it refreshing that I can talk on here and be open about about my sexual needs and what I do.
How refreshing it is to be open and honest with people other than my T
Pippa
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