Posted by inimitable on December 4, 2006, at 11:42:28
In reply to Re: Does your T ask? ***SI trigger*** » bottomfeeder, posted by muffled on December 4, 2006, at 10:40:34
i have to say that i think you should defintely tell you T. if this is a problem in your life, you need to be able to talk about it with your T. T's are not there to feel "comfortbale" talking about something. they should be prepared for anything.
i know with my T, he knew i had a problem with SI in the past, but i told him i hadn't done it for a long time (and i hadn't) but then, about a month ago, i did SI again, and he knew i have been having a rough time these past few months, and actually i've gotten closer to my T, through this hard time of mine, but i have to admit, i didn't WANT to tell him that i cut myself, for the first time in...gosh, two years? i was ashamed because i didn't think i did a very good job of cutting myself (so it was pointless), but also because he was seeing the true side of me, and i guess i was scared of him getting a different idea of who i am. but he still accepts me, even though i told him.
anyways to cut to the point, you should tell your T, when you feel ready to tell her, of course, but you should end up telling her, because it's a problem in your life, is it not?
good luck!!!!!*inimitable
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