Posted by B2chica on December 4, 2006, at 11:09:01
In reply to Does your T ask? ***SI trigger***, posted by bottomfeeder on December 3, 2006, at 23:47:01
i haven't SI'd in a while but used to frequently and severly at times. when i was seeing a great T, i told him initially, he told me he didn't have a lot of experience with that but if i did he really wanted me to tell him. because he wanted to talk about it in session. he also would at times give me alternative to do and let him know if they worked, some of them really worked well.
i think especially if you are doing it more often, things are going on that you need to talk. if she is unresponsive to you telling her this i think maybe you need to find someone who will be.
this is a very important aspect of you emotions and needs to be addressed.
just be aware that there are some T's that just don't deal with SI and don't want to. hopefully your's is not that way, and just being aloof about it because they want you to feel unjudged and open to talk with them about it.remember, just becareful with yourself, clean your wounds well and go to ER if necessary.
i hope you resolve why you're increasing your SI soon.
cares
b2c.
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