Posted by frida on December 4, 2006, at 7:42:07
In reply to Does your T ask? ***SI trigger***, posted by bottomfeeder on December 3, 2006, at 23:47:01
Hi, I self injure sometimes too. I've told my T, and sometimes I tell her that I feel the urges, but I don't always tell her every time I do it. Sometimes I wish she'd ask me...She doesn't pressure me to tell her, but I am sure it would be Ok if I could tell her. Maybe you can ask her if it's okay ? How did she respond when you first told her?
My T understood why..I was scared of her seeing it as a sign of weakness - but she doesn't.
Sometimes she asks me how my nights have been, and often mentions how I punish myself, but it's hard to mention when I do it.I hope you can bring this up to her, it might be relieving to you to tell her and know how she feels about it...it's good to be able to share this without keeping it so secret.
Stay safe,
Frida
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