Posted by annierose on November 8, 2006, at 22:10:08
In reply to Re: Unconditional acceptance » annierose, posted by Dinah on November 8, 2006, at 20:43:58
>>>She might be struggling to figure out how best to help you, and this is what she's come up with.<<<
This made me laugh out loud because
1. It's probably true and
2. Is this the best she could come up with?At other times when I felt angry about her reactions and such, she has often told me that what I took as indifference was her acceptance. I think that to be true for the most part.
The second part to my question, after you cut back to twice a week, does it feel "normal" after a while. I guess what I'm asking, does the pain of seperation ever go away?
As I'm writing, I realize a huge part of my anger was her easy acceptance of my cutting back. Not that I had a choice, but she didn't explore how that might make me feel --- if I was sad or worried or concern. She said, "Oh, well I better make that change in my appointment book." Thanks for your concern. Next.
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