Posted by alexandra_k on October 6, 2006, at 17:52:48
In reply to Re: Therapy Update » alexandra_k, posted by littleone on October 6, 2006, at 1:32:39
> you're leaving her without even trying to talk it through with her.
i have tried to talk to her. i can't. it isn't working.
> It just seems like that could be repeated over and over with many T's.
i have found this with a couple. but then there have been other people who i haven't found this with. i don't want it to be like this :-(
> And even though you think she may not be the best T, it doesn't mean that she can't help you.
sure. thats why i go to therapy. keep going to therapy. but thats also why i'm happy that she is going away for a month and i get to work with her supervisor.
only... it was unclear to be whether that was what was going to be happening or whether she still had to ask her supervisor about that. so probably... i'll end up seeing nobody over that time. thats what usually happens etc etc.
it isn't that she is hopeless. it is that we aren't well suited to one another.
> Maybe too because it seems like you're not definate you want to leave her. There's at least part of you that wants to stay. Even though there's a strong part of you wanting to pull the pin. If she was really hopeless or you really didn't click at all, I don't think that indecision would be there.
no. i won't miss her once our therapy is over. i had someone back home... similar to this. similar situation. i didn't think of her as my t. lovely lady trying to help etc etc. last one used to be a bit quieter which meant it was a bit easier for me to use the time to talk and figure things out that way... i know it is better than nothing. but i'm dealing with the public service and assigned t's. if i was funding this... i would have moved on after the first session. and i wouldn't have gone to see her in the first place.
i'm ungrateful.
> Even on the second art T session, we didn't actually do art therapy. Just talked. Really upset my young part. What sort of art T has all the art stuff out in front of you, but then doesn't let you use it?
did you ask him that?
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