Posted by bent on October 6, 2006, at 1:00:29
In reply to Re: not liking my T's 'other' clients, posted by Dinah on October 5, 2006, at 20:51:04
>> Unfortunately the people I want to be special to are the ones I find special.
I'm not sure I'd want to give up the one and lose the other. >>good point.
>> Maybe it just means a different level of attachment on your part (even though it doesn't feel like it) and a natural desire for that attachment to be reciprocal, or anger that in some ways it just isn't. >>
I think you hit the nail on the head. The logical part of my brain totally understands the sort of non-equal, one-sidedness of the relationship. Of course, the not so logical side is mad and hurt about it. Why wont the logical and illogical parts talk to each other!! My T tends to refer to these 'sides' as adult feelings vs child feelings. I can see that kinda.
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