Posted by wishingstar on September 27, 2006, at 16:36:21
In reply to Re: Sorry for disappearing (very long) **Trigger** » wishingstar, posted by TherapyGirl on September 26, 2006, at 5:25:44
Believe it or not, the "hang in there"s really do help. It helps to know that you all are hearing me, even if there's no magic answer.
I did see Laurie last Friday. I was sort of on a just-finished-partial high... feeling very heard, very safe, relaxed, etc. I told her all the things I learned in partial and we spent the entire time talking about that.. no particular topic with any real depth. I was honestly feeling for a minute like things were fixed, but obviously, it doesnt work that way. But it was nice to see her. I did tell her about what happened with Anne of course. I talked a little about how angry and hurt I was by the way she'd terminated, and Laurie commented about how much it would have helped if Anne would have commented on her own feelings of being stuck, frustrated, etc... she was so, so right. I love how Laurie just "gets it". Laurie thinks Anne probably just was feeling lost and stuck and not confident enough to terminate with me herself. But at the time, I was feeling so good we didnt really get much into it. I'm supposed to see her again this Friday so I think we'll talk about it again then... I'm ready to be angry and hurt about it now, strange as that sounds.
Read my next comment for info on the new T... or lack thereof. Hah.
Thank you.
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