Posted by Jost on August 29, 2006, at 4:30:58
In reply to Re: Taking a Break, posted by LadyBug on August 28, 2006, at 23:38:41
Maybe if your T can't work with you on something, it's a sign that she's not the one for you.
Maybe you need a new T, a better husband, and a house of your own. Dependence isn't a bad thing-- if you're depending on the right person.
Those are huge goals, not to be accomplished, or often even contemplated, until it's gotten to be too much. People don't change those things, until they've become very hard to accept.
I'm sorry if that's what's happened. But there's also hope, because you want more, and you know that you're isolating because you're hurt.
Maybe it's important to stay here, and not isolate here, It can be a beginning, a place where you get a little stronger.
Jost
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