Posted by ElaineM on August 4, 2006, at 20:10:28
In reply to Re: a little nervous, posted by inimitable on August 3, 2006, at 13:46:45
Inimitable: Not "way too long" at all! When I post I'm a little verbose myself ;-) I like reading about everyone. But, I enjoy hearing of you trying the dating/social scene. It's something I often feel nostalgic for, though it never really happened in the first place.
You sound like you really know how to push yourself, but set your own limits at the same time. It's not the easiest thing to do. "No touch" is a particularily difficult one for alot of females. Good for you.
It sounds like you had a good time. And I was glad to hear that you were home safe. Even the Jay part sounded like a positive experience, though it didn't really pan out afterwards. But what I try and do now is take moments for what they are, and not what they weren't. You had fun, set guidelines, took some risks, and sound like you think it was worth it. It sounds like it was to me too :-) Maybe the next guy won't be as confusing. Who knows what was going on with Jay anyways!
Thanks for updating me. Let me know if you try again.
ELaine
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