Posted by Karolina on July 19, 2006, at 23:11:46
In reply to your first T » Karolina, posted by ElaineM on July 18, 2006, at 22:19:30
Thanks El, I had never looked at it like that before. That really explains why I could be having some issues with him, like with what's been going on lately.
I also still just can't seem to get over how cruel he was acting, back in the spring when I had to come home from my internship and he was trying to refer me to ED specialists...I was definitely in terrible mental and physical health during that time, so maybe my perceptions of everything that was going on were distorted, but at the time he was also going through a divorce.
And he's admitted since then, that the divorce was really affecting him right then and he was having trouble dealing with stress and knows he said some things that hurt me. But for some reason I still can't get over how mean/insensitive acting he was. I understand how stressful a divorce must be, but I wish he didn't let his own personal feelings get in the way right then. But maybe he couldn't help it.
There are times I still want to talk about how that made me feel, but I guess there really is no point to go back into it. But something bothers me about how everything is all fine and back to normal, that it's like that whole threat never even happened. It had just caused me so much stress and sick feelings...sorry I didn't mean to rant about all this, I just feel stressed out right now. Thanks for your responses.
-Karolina-
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