Posted by ElaineM on July 18, 2006, at 22:19:30
In reply to Re: get kicked out?, posted by Karolina on July 18, 2006, at 21:48:25
> When I was younger I had a T who had a major crush on my pediatrician, who was still handling my prescriptions at the time (I didn't have a pdoc yet). She would push so many medications at me and make me take these lame tests to see if I had ADD and stuff like that. Then she would get on the phone with him to discuss medications and attempt to flirt with him...it was awful, like she was using me as an excuse to try and talk to him or something.
Karolina, what you remembered right there may be a part of why you find it so upseting when your T talks about other girls he likes, infront of you.(you know, apart from all the regular valid reasons) It's so similar to what your old T did --flirting with your doc on the phone while you were there. No wonder you question your T's intentions now.I can understand how worried you are about how he will react to you after knowing how you feel about him. I don't have much advice about how to deal with questioning his motives though. But it can't be good for you having to wonder so much. Maybe others will have better ideas.
It's so confusing sometimes.
EL
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