Posted by Dinah on July 6, 2006, at 16:31:08
In reply to An apology, explaination, and *child abuse trigger, posted by happyflower on July 6, 2006, at 13:43:04
> So sorry you were offended about what I said, yeah, I lost my temper, because I was triggered by<<<< EXCUSE ME>>>> From someone who has NEVER offered me any support during hard times, but yet choose to pick apart my post and add words to it, and to provock a response on a therapy board, knowing people are in therapy for a reason, should know better to judge me and critisize me, should be able to handle the response to an insensitive comment that was made by them in the first place.
I'm sorry, Happyflower. I appreciate you were trying to apologize, and I did have an inkling that your reaction was influenced by your experience with your mother. But I'm going to have to ask you not post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down. Since you've been asked to be civil before, I'm going to have to block you from posting. I'll let Dr. Bob determine the length of the block.
I hope that if you wish to post about this matter again, that you remember that I and the other deputies are available to help review any potentially difficult posts, so that you can phrase what you wish to say in a way that complies with the civility guidelines.
It is definitely true that most of us find triggers on Babble from time to time. If it's best for you to avoid those triggers, I understand. But if you find a way to continue to post in a way that is helpful to you, I'll always be happy to see you.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Please everyone, remember that everyone involved is covered by the civility guidelines.
Dr. Bob is always free to override deputy decisions. His email is on the bottom of each page. Please feel free to email him if you believe this decision was made in error.
Dinah, acting as deputy for Dr. Bob
poster:Dinah
thread:664518
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20060703/msgs/664559.html