Posted by fairywings on June 16, 2006, at 18:13:59
In reply to what was i thinking?!, posted by Karolina on June 15, 2006, at 22:43:45
Hi Karolina,
I think it was great you could write your feelings out, really brave of you to give him the note, and good that he accepted it so kindly and said he'd read it.
Hopefully he'll respond in a way that makes you feel comfortable with what you've expressed, and also makes you feel safe. It does feel a bit awkward when you stretch yourself like that, doesn't it? But it can feel better when you go back and talk about it - not always, but a lot of times. That's where it's good they're a T, and tend to be more understanding than others. My guess is he'll know how to deal with it, and won't feel you've put him in a bad spot.
BTW, I'd feel really uncomfortable if my T sat that close to me - is it in your "personal space"?
fw
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