Posted by fairywings on June 16, 2006, at 18:00:51
In reply to Please, anyone help me, posted by curtm on June 15, 2006, at 22:48:24
(((curt))) If I'm reading this the right way, I often feel that way too. I want attention from certain people only, but I want to do the things I want to do, and be left alone to do them, and not have anyone interfere. Do you feel alone? I know you've talked about friends, so I guess you don't isolate, do you?
One of my problems is that I want have the love and attention of certain people, but I don't want to deal with some of the problems that go along relationships. I'm afraid I'll end up old and lonely, but I'm afraid of real intimacy, other than with my husband, and he's not in my face - so I can do things and not be bothered sometimes. But then again, sometimes I want him to be more available than he is, and then I'm upset bec. I'm not getting what I want. It's such a vicious cycle.
Any of that ring true for you too?
fw
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