Posted by sleepygirl on June 15, 2006, at 23:16:07
In reply to Please, anyone help me, posted by curtm on June 15, 2006, at 22:48:24
it's the damn approach-avoidance thing!! We may feel it necessary to both approach (because we need the support of people) and simultaneously avoid (because people can be aversive-or downright crappy)
-it's a catch 22, damned if you do, damned if you don't, etc, etc
poster:sleepygirl
thread:657465
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