Posted by scentedgarden on June 13, 2006, at 6:09:13
In reply to Re: Ah sh*t. » muffled, posted by Tamar on June 13, 2006, at 4:05:52
Hi again... I just wanted to say, I know how you feel about not wanting to hurt her feelings.... I felt the same, and mine told me I wasn't to worry about her feelings being hurt, and that we were there to help me, and so I think if your T is any good she will be trained in how to handle al sorts of feelings from clients...the nice and the not so nice...if you get my drift...
so take a chill pill and just get out of that as you call it sh*t of yours and break free....you're free to be and say what you feel you must if not anywhere else then especially in therapy...thats what theyre paid for!! ( in a way)
And like you say yourer kids need you!!! so dont die in your own feelings let it rip...whats the worst that can happen!! You may feel better... anyway I know you already sent the fax...so she will have got it most likely by now...
I know from my T that she laughs and likes it alot when I tell her some of the negative stuff... I think she has a good sense of humour... and like once Isasid I have to watch you dont turn me into a complete bore... and she laughed ....
...like you quite rightly say everything feels more real and genuine after a good clear out of the emotional box... the air is all the better for it...lets know how you get on...Im keen to hear, as i think you are very funny and nice person - i like the sound of you and hope you dont mind me being so myself on here...sorry if i step over the line...I hope i havent but if i have i hope you will not be upset with anything ive said..as you know im new here and dont know the boundaries yet... Lots of like from scented garden
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