Posted by fairywings on June 7, 2006, at 16:02:20
In reply to Re: feeling so pathetic..., posted by Karolina on June 7, 2006, at 15:34:31
>>Maybe I just shouldn't...I don't want to take this kind of risk...it especially makes me feel stupid when I know he sees other female clients. Because I'm so emotional about *our* relationship, but he has all these other relationships with them too.
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> I can't do this..Maybe try to write it out, take it with you, and if you can't give it to him during the appt, leave it with him. Your relationship is the only thing that matter...doesn't matter how anyone else feels, what they say to him, or their relationship with him.
I've told my T really vulnerable things, I felt really stupid, but felt so much better after telling him. He's never reacted badly to me. Do you think on some level he already knows? Maybe he can help you with it if you're struggling.
hugs,
fw
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