Posted by Dinah on May 29, 2006, at 22:13:50
In reply to Re: My therapist won't help me with what I want, posted by Daisym on May 29, 2006, at 21:51:30
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It does sound like back to normal, doesn't it?
Not quite, but closer. He's back as close to town as he's going to get, and he can see me at my old twice a week, more or less.
We're 90% sure we're staying. The difference in home prices is just too high to make moving practical unless we have to. But we're not positive about the having to.
Work has made me miserable for many years, and I think it's time to throw in the towel. Or at least to cut back to a point where it doesn't cause me so much stress. My husband certainly wants me to.
But that was one of the good points to moving. It'd be easier to pull back and just do as much as I want to do. I'm a girl who just can't say no in person, and my sense of responsibility towards the business is too strong for me to just say no. Which is odd considering how much I've let everyone down the last few years. Probably the best thing I could do for them is to just say no.
I'm going to need lots of encouragement and moral support, and maybe even a bit of prodding, though. Certainly approval from those people who are important to me like my husband and my therapist. And I'm pretty sure I'm not going to get it from my therapist. He thinks I'm lucky to have a job where they put up with me and where I have such flexibility. He'd put it a bit nicer than that.
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