Posted by wishingstar on May 13, 2006, at 9:50:18
In reply to Re: she called me back! » wishingstar, posted by madeline on May 13, 2006, at 8:31:05
I hadnt been able to put it in those words in my head, but yes, you're exactly right. I dont need her to make any big interpretations or anything here.. I just need her to hear that I'm hurting and apologize. In my counseling techniques class, they've told us many times that sometimes you have to apologize even if you think you're right (as the counselor). I dont even really care that much if she privately thinks she's right.. I just wish she'd recognize that her action hurt me and say she's sorry. The end. No one ever apologized for hurting me as a kid, that's for sure. (wow, there's another piece I didnt realize until just now)
I'm going to try my best to "let her have it" and tell her I'm angry. So much depends on how I'm feeling that morning.. but I'm going to reread what I wrote here and hope it goes well.
Thanks for your help.
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