Posted by Tamar on April 16, 2006, at 19:04:31
In reply to we luv ya too ((Tamar )) » Tamar, posted by muffled on April 16, 2006, at 10:18:22
Hi Muffled,
> Sorry its so hard right now.
Thanks for that. I think it’s getting better, but it’s slow…
> I dunno how open you are with your T, but as far as nudity goes, I don't think thats a problem. These days it seems everything goes, so if your T hasn't seen a nipple b4 I'd be surprized! Heck, he's got two nipples hisself!
That’s very true! I had forgotten about his nipples… haven’t thought about them in weeks…
> If its the intensity of the photos thats concerns you, then I would just warn him that they are intense b4 you let him have them, so he's ready for it, or he may choose not to look at them, but just discuss content. He's the best judge of his own limits of what he can handle.
Yeah, you’re right. I’ll definitely warn him about what’s in there.
> If your motivation for giving them to him are good, then it might help your therapy. Show him how things are for you. The reality of it.
I guess the main purpose is to use them symbolically to try to leave my self-destructive feelings with him. He doesn’t need to look at them, and in fact I talked about them once before (without showing them to him) so I suppose it doesn’t really matter whether he sees them.
> Thanks so much for posting, we have been worried about you.
> Its hard to post when its hard to even collect 2 coherant thots.
> Please try and be safe as you can.
> You are special.
> You'll get thru this.
> And the sun will shine again.
> And there will be times of joy.Yeah. That’s true… And I also hope there will be trips to bars in pink leather pants and much pissing on cars…
> And you'll be able to help so many others, cuz you TRULY understand. Cuz you been there.
> Sometimes I think us strugglers have a special reason for it, and thats to help others. Even in seemingly small ways.(((((Muffled))))) Yeah. I think you’re right.
Thanks again.
Tamar
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