Posted by happyflower on April 7, 2006, at 3:01:05
In reply to Re: session yesterday**trigger** » B2chica, posted by Daisym on April 7, 2006, at 1:11:01
I like and agree with with Daisy is saying. You didn't want it, nobody wants abuse. So that makes me see that you are still wondering if it was abuse or not because if you did see it as abuse, you would know it wasn't your fault or that you wanted it.
For me just admitting I was abused, was the the hardest point in my therapy. Once you accept that it was abuse, then you have to really deal with that, and not cover it up for you own mental protection. I think this is when the healing really starts.
I think you are doing great after everything and working with a new therapist must be so hard. I would have a very hard time to open up to a new T especially about things this personal. So I think just take it more slow, trust is something that needs to be built up slowly. I think you are doing good concidering you haven't been with this T very long. You should give yourself a pat on the back! (((((((B2))))))))
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