Posted by LadyBug on March 30, 2006, at 14:54:01
In reply to Heretical thought, posted by Dinah on March 30, 2006, at 12:22:48
I wonder about this same issue ALL THE TIME!!! In fact this week I tell myself; if I didn't go to therapy, I would never have to hear my therapist tell me she is "leaving" to go out of town!!!! This always sets off a trigger for me. It feels like abandonment and the feelings I get from it hurts more than I care to feel. I know it's an issue I have and it's deep, but her leaving town triggers it everytime she leaves! which is quite often lately. She always brings it up at the very END of our hour and then leaves me alone with it when I need time to process it WITH her. I've grown so dependant on the connection I have with her. I wonder how I'll ever break away and feel ok. 9 years is a lot of time and money spent!!! I don't see the end in site and I wonder if I'll ever have what I need to terminate this work.
I'd love to read what other people have to say too. I often wonder about this.
LadyBug
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