Posted by Poet on March 30, 2006, at 9:44:42
In reply to Why should I feel overwhelmed? long and negative, posted by Racer on March 29, 2006, at 17:53:23
Hi Racer,
You don't seem very unreasonable to me, I don't think anyone's employer would be critical about someone coming in late because his wife is having surgery.
<< Well, have you considered staying late to make it up? Oh, see, he can't do that because of me. I'm so unreasonable as to request that we NOT eat dinner after 10PM.
I don't think it's unreasonable for him to eat something when he gets home if he has to work late and not expect you to have a full hot meal waiting at 10 p.m. In other words, heat up whatever you made earlier. Keep in mind my husband does all the cooking so our situation is different, but this is what works for us. When he works nights, he'll make something early and we both heat it up when we're hungry.
If I could pick you up after your surgery I would. I'd make you jello, too. It might be kind of runny (I really can't cook) but I'd give you a straw.
You'll come through this surgery just fine.
Poet
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