Posted by daisym on February 28, 2006, at 20:47:58
In reply to Crying, Crying all day, just so sad, it hurts, posted by happyflower on February 28, 2006, at 20:26:50
(((Happyflower)))
I wish I could wipe away your tears. It hurts so much, I know all too well. But did you see my post above? It felt better when we talked about it, even though it was really hard to do. If you share with him on Monday how you feel, isn't this an honest gift to him of yourself? No, it won't change the boundaries. But it gives you a chance to deepen your bond and his understanding of how much he means to you. I won't say you won't miss him. I don't know what to do about that, otherwise I'd be doing it! But sharing all this can be a very powerful way to know a little more about yourself and who you are and what you really need and want.
All that said, there are times when stuff hurts worse than others. It is at those times that I wish camp comfort really did exist.
Take good care,
Daisy
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