Posted by happyflower on February 28, 2006, at 10:20:48
In reply to Re: I think I want my T to just be my T only(long) » happyflower, posted by milly on February 27, 2006, at 10:00:43
> Wow,I think it's great you can see that changing the relationship could spoil it, as it is he is your special T and nothing can change that.
It feel special in a way.
> I would desperatly like a social relationship with my T and truely believe in other circumstances we would have been special friends (had we been collegues or met socially)
I believe this too, to the heart of my being. I still have a special bond that nothing will change how I feel.
but what I have shared with him has felt 'sacred' which would have been spoilt had the relationship been anything other than a theraputic one.
> Still hurts like hell that it won't be though!Yes, it hurts to give up "the dream" but in a way our relationship is scared, and that helps the pain . (((((MILLY))))
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