Posted by happyflower on February 28, 2006, at 10:16:25
In reply to Re: I think I want my T to just be my T only(long) » happyflower, posted by Daisym on February 26, 2006, at 23:15:06
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> Just don't be too hard on yourself if you find that it is harder to stop wishing for more than you thought it would be. I always say I don't want to want this...but I do.Thanks Daisy, I know what you mean, really. I just am feeling it deep down that maybe me and my T's relationship is what it is and I should feel good about it.
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> I'm glad you found the book helpful. I'm amazed at how much work you've done in a relatively short time. I'm at almost three years in May and you seem light years ahead of me.Oh, Daisy, please don't compare progress, progress is progress not matter how fast it happens. I have passed my year mark in Jan, and I find it hard to believe. Therapy is so hard, but I believe the EMDR is what truley jump started my progress. It got to the nitty gritty of my pain that was holding me back from life. I guess I came to therapy at the right time for me.
> I hope the break from therapy continues to be a good one.
Thanks Daisy, ! I am feeling strong and not missing him like I normally am , like an obsession or something. I guess I might be detaching a bit, which might be a good thing.
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