Posted by Dia on February 21, 2006, at 13:26:31
In reply to Re: on knowing 'too much' about your T » zebracrossing, posted by LegWarmers on February 20, 2006, at 12:34:00
I have always had the theory that anybody can read anything you write or put on the internet, even if you think it's all 'secure' and everything. Aside from hacking, people might forward your messages to somebody else or they could be read by someone you didn't want it to be read by, if the person you meant to send your e-mail to has someone sitting right next to them or says 'hey come here and read this'... The bottom line is that I compose all my e-mails as if someone else was going to read them. Even in instant message conversations, I censor or watch what I say. It's harsh but I always thought that if someone was stupid enough to write out something really personal on the internet, then it's their own fault if they end up feeling 'violated' because somebody else read it.
I really am trying to not look as much at his stuff and I thought of some reasons for why I do it. I get really jealous. If I found out he was emailing with another client or even seeing another female client around my age I would be furious. I'm also jealous of his wife, we've met and she definitely does not like me. I was also trying to find things I disliked about him so I could stop thinking he was so wonderful but unfortunately that didn't really work. But I would never ever delete any of his e-mails, read them before he has or try and sabotage his account.
*Dia*
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