Posted by Voce on February 7, 2006, at 20:42:19
In reply to Re: It doesn't matter... » Voce, posted by Emily Elizabeth on February 7, 2006, at 9:43:33
Thank you for your post, EE. I think you really hit on some true things.
<Have you considered writing a letter to T1 and T2 about this issue? You could use the letter more as a way to address your own feelings abt things rather than as a form of formal, legal action.>
I've started 3 different letters to T2 today, some angry, some calm. I think I'm starting to find a happy medium between unhappy and reasonable. In the end she's going to want to meet with me in person and discuss this, but I don't want to. I don't want her to explain her actions. I just want this to all go away.
<However, it sounds like you had a positive relationship with both T's.>
I did. Still do, I guess.
<It sounds like they may have been very sloppy with the laws, but not malicious.>
That sounds exactly right. Sloppy is an excellent word.<I want to be very clear that I am suggesting this possibility not to let them off the hook, but because I want you to know that this isn't because they don't care about, don't like you, etc. Those would be awful feelings to be left with.>
Thanks. It IS a feeling I have been fighting all day. I just feel like I can't trust anyone. I also feel like things are going on over my head like I'm some little kid or something who's not big enough to join the discussion.
<P.S. Today might be a good day to treat yourself to something special--ice cream, a new shirt, a bubble bath?>
Already done. A nice big brownie with lunch.
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