Posted by LegWarmers on January 25, 2006, at 22:35:06
In reply to I got a question tooo..., posted by muffled on January 25, 2006, at 14:30:35
> How can a T know where you comming from if she from a different world. I think my T is more gentille. I come from the streets. I dunno if she can understand really?
> Has she seen evil? How can a person understand bout it less you seen it? There's no description, doesn't bear thinking of even. So sometimes I wonder. Do they even need to 'get' you? I lost.
> Thanks for any replies.
> MuffledI experienced the same feelings, you could just tell that my experiences in life were very different from my t's and my T use to not always fully understand where I was coming from. It was a really awkward moment, but I finally said something about it...it no longer makes a difference, I no longer wonder if my T can understand what things might have been like for me etc. Talking about it was really helpful.
But even if you don't talk about it, i tihnk they figure out where we are at pretty quickly and have the skills to work with that. We all have quite differnet backgrounds so t's need to get accustomed to many.
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