Posted by fairywings on January 21, 2006, at 9:02:40
In reply to Re: T said to keep depression as long as I want it » fairywings, posted by Declan on January 21, 2006, at 4:00:47
Thanks Declan,
Yes, he's said stuff about making choices and feeling empowered. I didn't know that was standard T stuff.
He did suggest that maybe it was biological, but mostly he told me it was a choice and I had to make an effort "IF" I wanted to change, but I have chosen to do things I didn't feel doing, I don't feel better, I feel worse. I have 4 kids, and I don't want to be a sucky mom, or wife. I don't want to feel completely lost and alone, but I do.
I agree, he could put things differently. I feel like he's putting up a wall to protect himself from me, and I don't have a problem with that, if he'd just be honest and say "I really can't deal with you right now."
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